According to research, around 50% of marriages in the United States still end in divorce (American Psychological Association, 2017). While there are more dating sites and options than ever, it still seems that finding love in today’s society is easier but the real challenge appears to be how to keep it. However, Manka Bajaj, CEO of The Magnetic Mindset Studio, believes that it is possible to reignite love anytime by creating a Peak Love State. Manka’s approach enables individuals to stay in love with themselves, with their partners, and with the world by creating a safety and pleasure response in their nervous system.
To make love last, many relationship coaches often suggest changing your pattern, not always your partner, putting you in control of your own love story. However, after failed relationships, some people may feel as if they must settle for less than what they desire. Manka thinks that no one should ever have to compromise on their desire for real love. Instead of giving up on your desire, try upgrading your beliefs about what you deserve. If you desire something but don’t feel like you deserve it, it won’t feel secure, and if it doesn’t feel safe, it won’t last anyway because our brains are wired to avoid danger. Manka emphasizes that we cannot fully control how the other person shows up in the relationship only how we are in the connection.
When they don’t show up in the ways we need them to, we can end up feeling unloved, which can be incredibly painful. In those moments, it’s important to keep the faith alive and give yourself permission to be angry and hurt but don’t blame yourself. You must remember that you are still lovable and still worthy. Instead of immediately looking for love and affirmation elsewhere, Manka suggests really taking care of yourself, going out and buying yourself some flowers, and prioritizing pleasure by feeding all five senses until your body, mind, and soul become fully alive again and vibrate with love. This method triggers a relaxation response and cultivates Peak Love State, which is what Manka teaches in her coaching program, Love Again. The program is designed to keep love alive by sourcing love from within.
Manka’s personal struggles with the ending of a long-term relationship motivated her to study love deeply and in turn, pursue coaching as a career. This journey resulted in Manka creating The Magnetic Mindset Studio, where she developed Love Again, a coaching program designed to help individuals cultivate Peak Love State and find love from within. Through the program, Manka has coached women from all over the world to be able to do the same. Manka believes that love lasts as long as you believe in it. If you don’t believe in love, no words or gestures can prove otherwise. The key is to source love from within and create your own love story, instead of trying to mold yourself to fit someone else. To reignite the love in your life and create a Peak Love State, schedule your Love Again discovery call at https://www.mankabajaj.com/.
Reference: American Psychological Association. (2017). Marriage and divorce. Retrieved from https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce